Through the Transitioning Seasons.
A few minutes past 4:30, the Sugar Creek Trio makes its way back to church. We practice over our song on the stage in the quiet sanctuary. People begin to arrive. It is a flurry of activities that proceed from the kitchen. Pies are being cut, soup is being stirred, and cinnamon rolls are being plated. Everyone is ushered into the sanctuary. The United Center youth files quietly down the side aisle and onto the stage. The singing is marvelously fun and it sounds better than the practices beforehand. The trio mostly goes off without a hitch aside from a slight voice shake. We file out the way we filed in and zoom off to start our work. Food is dished out into glassware and placed on the tables. It is quite the beautiful set up. Instead of serving lines, it is eating family style. AW and I serve up our table. We pour drinks and check that every need is filled. Coffee only gets spilled once, but as a girl who is not always careful in the kitchen and who worked in a bakery, I am pretty used to burns. The servers with slightly weary feet finally sit down to eat. Venison chili is actually quite phenomenal, which is the opinion of a person who doesn’t like regular chili. That opinion is shared by next to none in the near vicinity. Most of my friends are wildly disappointed in my opinion. It takes a bit for everyone to clear tables and a few other unlucky souls and myself get the job of scraping and cleaning candle wax from candle holders. With little persuasion, one young gentleman helps me by microwaving the holders and using a knife to pry out the wax. This is not recommended! The glass gets unusually hot and the wax doesn’t really melt. It is later found out that hot water works much better. Now one would suppose that after spending all day together that we would all want to go home and get to bed. Incorrect! We all head home and freshen up and meet at school for some volleyball. It is entirely a fun ball game with many young couples also appearing. They bring fresh excitement and energy as it isn’t a normal thing for them to play volleyball. Maybe it is also that fact that we are all a little overtired and funny things happen when people are overtired. The chili supper itself raised a good amount of money that will go toward “our youth outreaches”. It was an enjoyable experience and I now wish we did these such things at my Ohio home.
Finally the day came that my student got both of her casts removed. It doesn't feel like it has been that long while also feeling like it has been forever. She now has one wrist in a brace and the other completely free. She is enjoying her freedom as are the rest of us.
If you read my last blog, you will remember the “enjoyable” time I have had flying. After my parents get stuck in Florida and have to rent a car to drive the 18 hours home, I, together with my father, decide it would be best to cancel my tickets to dearest N + J’s wedding. I do so and receive a full refund! Yay, hurray! I get a substitute teacher for Friday & Monday and early Friday morning, that means 4:30 a.m., I get on road to Mortons Gap, Kentucky where my sister teaches. I arrive at two in the afternoon and freshen up before she gets home. We hurriedly pack all my things into her car and head for our Ohio home. It is nearly midnight when we finally pull up to our dear childhood home. The family is sleeping or scrolling peacefully in the living room. We arouse them from their peacefulness and after getting some snacks and beverages, we sit around and yap as our family does when we are all together. Oh to sleep in my room again, except it oddly doesn’t feel like it used to when it was the only room I’d ever known.
Saturday dawns beautifully. The sister and I decide that our old haunt Basil will be the lunch place. The sushi is marvelous as it always is. A car wash before a wedding is something my sister and I are well versed in. Eight dollars seems like nothing compared to the $14 I am used to spending on a car wash. The arrival at school means many hugs for all the family and friends and of course the beaming young couple! We tell our cousin how excited we are to be involved in the choir. “It is the best place to be at a wedding!” My sister says. “I think being the one getting married is the best place to be!” He returns with an impish grin. “Well, I don’t have any experience in that area,” I tell him. Choir practice goes splendidly. The songs are good old faithfuls and the choir leader is excellent at his job. My sister and I get prime seating with the front bench as our view. What a large selection of youth attends the ball game! Three nets are full the whole afternoon and the ball playing is exceptional for a Saturday afternoon. The supper is attended and for once, the table conversations go quite swell with no awkward silences and nervous conversations with your friend beside you. Even though there is an inordinate amount of young people, the singing isn’t as great as it could be. My sister and I spend most of the time making faces at the bridal couple and their entourage such as seeing who can cheese bigger. The lovely bridal couple takes that one. In fact, I haven’t seen a happier couple in a while. Someone makes the comment, “I want to look that happy on my wedding!” Evening volleyball is pretty much an afternoon rematch.
The wedding day weather is cold and windy. “You brought the Kansas wind with you,” someone comments. And yes, it feels quite like home. Choir practice goes splendidly, just like Saturday. The wedding is just a solid good wedding. The choir is so much fun to sing in. Once again, we are making faces at our cousin and our new cousin. How absolutely cute and glowing they are! J dear was so excited to hold his hand as she has never held N’s hand before. Aww! "Be our shelter from wild winds that blow. Lead us safe though whatever may come. And wherever our journey shall go, may we always be one in Your love." The bride and groom practically sail down the aisle. Their radiant joy makes it seem as though all is right with the world. What a joy it is to see your friends with the one who completes them! All too soon, the goodbyes are said and once again, the humming of the pavement is the lullaby that fills my ears. Seventeen hours and a night in the MG teacher house later, I turn in the driveway of that tan house on 21st Avenue. The string lights twinkle and the lamp light pouring from the windows has never looked better. Home sweet home!
“The art of life lies in a constant readjustment to our surroundings.”
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
“It is when we are in transition that we are most completely alive.”